If one day, I marry a man nobody knows what is his name. nobody know anything about him, pls dont come and ask me whats his name, why him....etc. Just think to yourself: She is really tired of the guys in her life liao. Thats all.

In reality,I often make surprising decisions. Not because I am a reckless risk taker. Believe me, i deliberated in my heart and mind over some time. I debated in myself many times. Friends advise can only do so much. So called experts are also just humans. Even divine intervention can do so much only.

All i asked before, now, later is a quiet life.

Can you pls do me this favour? Go home and ask your wife, gf, crush one Very important question: What do you want? What can I do to give you what you want?

Go ahead. U will be astonished what she really wants.

People, i love quotes. When I choose books to read, i love those with meaningful quotes. I no longer want to choose romance books or thrillers that make me breathless. Love is challenging enough. I don't need more heart aches or heart attacks.

What lies behind us and ahead or us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us-Henry David Thoreau

Love=life=work=shit.Therefore love=shit?

Why do men never really grow up into the gentlemen who we all aspire them to be?

One of the most common complaint we hear from women is men do not listen to them.

Secondly, men do not change even if they do listen.

WHY?

When you tell the boys you must brush your teeth, if not your teeth will decay, a toothache will be extremely painful, they dont listen. Hearing does not mean listening.

Finally, when they lost many teeth through painful extractions, then they start changing themselves to brush their teeth.

When a woman crys and begs or grumbles and nags at her husband to stop drinking every night, he does not listen.

Do you men really want your gfs or wives to pack their bags and go, before you wake up and see the light?

People don't change when they see the light, they change when they feel the heat.

Women on the other hand, see a relationship as a bank account. After a few years of tolerating bad behaviour, the back account (through debiting his bad behaviour and not crediting of loving acts) finally one day become bank overdraft. DEBIT balance of negative $100,000. At this point of time, anybody with feelings will just pack her bag and leave.

So how can you bear to say, you didn't know what you did wrong, you didnt know why she left suddenly?

You mean you did not hear her 100 times of saying you did not spend time with her, you did not give her flowers, you dont spend time with the kids, you are sloppy beyond words?

What exactly were you doing when she told u?

Haiz. In other words, men do not listen because they can see better then they listen or think.

Look, if you don't treat me right, don't expect me to dress up, make up, draw eyeliner, foundation,lip gloss, blusher, eyeshadow, mascara, comb my hair and style it, spray on nice perfume for u.

I rather spend my effort and time on worthy causes. On studies? Other men? Other interests? Other reasons than a person who does not bother about my feelings.

When i explicitly tell you to pls buy me flowers, you can don't by all means. Because if you don't cherish me, somebody else will!

I dont need to beg you for flowers. If you think i am not worth this, very well, you are not worth my precious youth at all. If i don't get flowers now, i don't see the point of you playing any role in this relationship.

I really dislike such ungentlemanly behaviour. Tomorrow i m giving S, L,M, W a chance. They all deserve to play a fair game.

A man who does not want to learn will never learn even if the teacher is the best teacher. Why do you want to learn things the hard way? If you dont want to learn, dont learn. If you want to learn, pls learn when people tell you nicely. If she does not have hopes and expectations for you, she wont even bother in the first place.

Dont let her leave you, then you change yourself. Change when she is still around.Because that is exactly whey she is still giving chances.

U know i find certain argument so defective, flawed, senseless that I am lost for words.

Lawyers are actually not being united, thats like not serving justice to the whole sg, whole world, whole universe and especially UFOS and ETS.

Consider my argument, if lawyers want to dispute about whether it is "accountable" to take high class flights to do official, unofficial, off duty time, on duty time watever, ok, in short WORK.

Hello, u want to talk about accountability, ok lets consider when u want to discuss accountability. Is this professional society a government professional body,a LLP (limited liability partnership) or simply a Pte Ltd?

If u see its 'client base', is it earning profits, how does singaporeans see it, is it receiving gov instructions, is it some how bound to have obligations, or the original purpose of setting it up in the first place?

If u say ok,it is a government body, we have obligations to answer to gov, we serve sg citizens regardless whether they pay us or not, we are answerable to how singaporeans perceive us, we represent the legal environment of sg to the rest of the world.Then we should see the this society as gov body regulating legal field. It is a yardstick how we measure agst other similar societies, then it is very not accountable to spend money on high class flights. Other gov bodies, statutory boards, professional bodies somehow linked to gov in ways are not doing this, therefore this society cant do this.In short, DUN TAKE business class.

If you argue that this society doesnt have a '.com.sg. gov website', its impression to everybody is NOT GOV regulation board, it is a LLP.

Ok, so sometimes law firms are small, so they serve less financially well citizens but bigger law firms are serving huge corporations. We are not liable to answer to government how much we earn, we are free to choose niche client market. It is business talk.But when we did something serious, eg pocketing money in convenyancing, and we are duly punished for our misbehavior, we are considered LLP. We are have limited liability to answer to government.

In other words, fly all u want, But one day, some tax agency or some police many step and acccuse u of using other people's money to do work.

Now, if you consider this society as PTE LTD. Well fly all u want, Virgin Airlines boss is flying all he wants. Playboy magazine founder is not responsible for his invention and he is getting married to a new (ANOTHER) girl. He is strictly a business man and u knw what thats his personal lifestyle habit. As a private business man, we cant blame his extravagant life style. His money, he is right to spend his own money.

SO my question is, if after this nonsense of considering the nature of business,we still cant decide what really is this nature of business.....then very well, push it to the question of market comparison, are other countries facing similar irritating problems of identity crisis, what the hell do we stand for?

Then simply push it to God, what is god's perspective about this. Appeal to higher noble sense of humans. Does god thinks this a teacup squabbles, is this not about wasting time, money,arguing universal truth, half truth half facts, purely empirical truths, facts or simply, a option airlines companies offer to earn more money?

Cant argue anymore abt business nature, god's intentions, then i tell u, one day our goverment will just do FIDREC. I will listen to everybody opinions, and u know wat, MY DECISION IS FINAL.

Next day: 'XYZ society identity crisis successfully resolved'

Yipee hurray, no more argument!

Everytime i feel lousy, I feel EXTRA MEGA SUPER VERY X 999 times Crappy.

Like today, i was reflecting about a person i really dont wish to see anymore. I joked with my friend. I told her I am going to name my household lizard after him. Everytime, from the corner of my eye, i saw a lizard fleeing to behind my cabinet, I will shout " It is you, SO and So, you are a pest to me. How dare u show up at my house? I will kill u now" and i used a newspaper, madly hit blindly hit. Poor so and so, poor named lizard, finally i chased u out of my house!

SHoo. You are a cold blooded pest. U deserved to be homeless, out of my life.

Oh poor lizard. Poor pest who lands in my home. Sorry la. I vent it out on u becos i am selfish lor.

Anyway ask urself lizard, since u steal food, u dirty my place, u scare me with ur tail, actually cant blame me for chasing u off right.

CRap lor, i think only teachers who work with crappy students know me best.HAHAHA, i love to crap la. crap is my way of looking at setbacks, unhappiness with a new dimension.

Trying my best to smile not cry. Just want to clown myself to not be moody anymore.Hope readers dun curse me.crap blog post again.

Quotes again!

Here are some cheeky quotes from the book: "The words of extraordinary women", selected and introduced by Carolyn Warner.

"Women dress alike all over the world: they dress to be annoying to other women."
-Elsa Schiaparelli

"Whenever I date a guy, I think, is this the man I want my children to spend their weekends with?" -Rita Rudner

"When you see what some girls marry, you realize how they must hate to work for a living."
-Helen Rowland

"A man in love is incomplete until he is married. Then he 's finished."
-Zsa Zsa Gabor

"An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets, the more interested he is in her."
-Agatha Christie

" Time wounds all heels" -Jane Sherwood Ace

I love this serious one below:

Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is a beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realise it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfil it.
Life is a sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is a adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it,
Life is life, fight for it!
-Mother Theresa

This line hits me. Well, I think i shall not ask questions when i fear that the other person will say an answer I really don't want to hear.

"If you truly want honesty, don't ask questions you don't really want the answer to."
-Burmese Proverb

Today and yesterday were just about the two most beautiful days ever. Ytd I went to Esplanade to see 2 performances. With the night wind caressing my hair, with the sparkling night scenery, with the sweet music, i feel like saying, this is the night to remember.You know, it is so ROMANTIC.

Ok today was very funny. I had a great time eating at chef daniel and opening our xmas gifts. Wow, somebody is so dead right, earring hanger plus mirror are very practical stuff for a girl. Thanks dear.(WHO? guess la, no fun reveal here mah)

I think december is really a better month than nov. Shortly after aiping's wedding, i fell ill. So wasnt very smooth, you see.

I am starting school next month. I am positive I am going to be very very busy.

This year is a much better year than last year. Thank you for making this year memorable in a sweet way. Thank you for believing in me. Thanks for the memories.